On Writing A Survival Guide for Women Who Feel Stuck in Their Marriage, Should I stay or Leave?

My name is Rebecca and I work as a Relationship Therapist for Relate Leeds, Bradford, UK.

After seeing a recurring pattern in the therapy room of many women feeling lost and confused in their marriage / relationship, I decided to put my knowledge on this subject into a short book/ guide.

This is also a journey I have walked myself and I think, to have a real passion for something, you need to fully understand it from the clients / readers perspective!

My book will help the reader to strip back all the layers and break down some of the biggest challenges women will face in their relationships, and how our early environment will also play a huge factor in the partners we are attracted to and why they will later become a significant source of conflict.

In order to make a decision (on whether to stay or leave your relationship), it’s important to understand your own patterns, otherwise, you will most likely leave one relationship just to recreate the same dynamic over and over again!

What you will learn in this book….

1. What attracted you to your partner in the first place (It’s much deeper than you think)

2. What causes the resentment and how our early environment will play a big factor in this

3. Why there is no right or wrong

4. How trading spouses will only temporarily halt the power struggle

5. How to view your partner differently and look at your situation from a different perspective

6. How to value yourself more and assert strong boundaries

As women reach their late 30’s to 40’s, they will often go through an awakening process where they start to value themselves more and look at life very differently.

Women often emotionally mature so much faster than men, and that’s why 70 percent of breakups today are initiated by women!

This can often feel very confusing and scary at times, and therefore, I felt it was important to reach out with the lessons I have learned on my journey to help other women feel heard, validated and completely supported.

Throughout the book, I highlight some of the crucial aspects of compiling a healthy marriage, and the ways that these can face difficulty between couples. These include attraction, boundaries, sex, blame and the important virtue of being true to one’s self.

All of these subjects and more are explained in an easily digestible amount of detail in recognition of the fact that not everybody reading will be well-versed in the complex psychology of human beings.

One of the most important factors of this book is how childhood experience plays a big part in the way adults view the world. The reader can easily gather that this is the bedrock on which a lot of therapy is based and that adults facing challenges must re-evaluate how they see the world based on the exposure they had when they were young.

A Survival Guide For Women Who Feel Stuck in Their Marriage, is specifically tailored for female readers and clients but also goes into great depth in explaining certain psychological aspects of their male partners and the difficulties they face in their own mental health and insecurities.

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Rebecca Jane is a Yorkshire-based relationship therapist who has had extensive experience in helping women through problems in their relationships and marriages. As stated on her website, her method of counseling is based on support, empathy, and non-judgment, as well as recognizing that each woman and their situation is different. Rebecca, therefore, ensures that her therapy is tailored to the needs of each individual in order to provide the inner strength and self-worth needed for clients to overcome their respective marriage dilemmas.

A Survival Guide For Women Who Feel Stuck In Their Marriage : Should I Stay or leave?  

Relationships are incredibly confusing and one of the hardest things we will ever have to navigate.

Rebecca gives us an in-depth insight into how our early environments play a huge role in the partners we choose and why they will later become a significant source of conflict. As we move through the decades, we will change as people, and what was fulfilling ten years ago may now feel stale and flat.

If you are at a crossroads in your marriage, this book will help you look at your own behaviour to change your outer reality.

It breaks down some of the biggest challenges we can all face in our marriages and how one person’s image of the ideal relationship is never someone else’s!

As an experienced relationship therapist, Rebecca finally understands what relationships need to sustain longevity, mutual love, equality, and respect.

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