5 Writing Rules We Break!

October 9, 2014 | By | 14 Replies More

Rules schmules! Call us rebellious, but when it comes to writing, we think some rules were made to be broken.

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Sona Charaipotra

Never start a sentence with a conjunction. So I have impeccable grammar, if I do say so myself. The basics, I like to proudly declare, I’ve pretty much got down. It’s versus its. There, their and there. Whose and who’s. And I can really rock a comma.

I know all of that like the back of my hand. But that doesn’t mean I’m stiff about rules. I do love to start a sentence with a conjunction,that’s for sure. And I’m awfully fond of the emdash — a little too fond, maybe! But (and there I go again!) those are all purposeful decisions. Here’s what I know now: once you’ve learned the rules, it’s quite fun to break them.

— Sona Charaipotra, co-author of Tiny Pretty Things (HarperTeen, May 2015)

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Shelly King

Write what you know. People tell you this all the time when you’re starting out as a writer, and we tend to take it literally as in ‘I worked on a yak farm, so my novel must take place on a yak farm.’

The rule should be “Write the truths you know.” I write what I know about my characters longings and dreams. For the action of the story, it’s all research and imagination.

— Shelly King, author of The Moment of Everything (Grand Central, September 2014)

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Amy Reichert

Write 2,000 words a day. I’m a rule follower, always have been, always will be, even in writing. I try to avoid passive prose and adverb abuse, I slaughter darlings with abandon, and I try to limit distractions but my kids keep finding me. I rewrite clichés when I find them, and edit to make sure every scene, sentence, and word has earned its place. But there’s one I break all the time, it’s more about practice than craft.While a lot of writerly advice suggests you should write a set amount of words everyday or for a set amount of time, I don’t.

When I’m drafting or editing a novel that’s my focus – that’s all I work on, I find my groove and work till it’s done. I don’t have a set time I write, a set word count I have to meet, or a number of pages I need to edit. In between, like now, I try to read more, blog more, research more. This system works well for me, and that’s the real rule to follow – use a system that works.

— Amy Reichert, author of The Coincidence of Coconut Cake (Gallery/Simon & Schuster, Summer 2015)

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Karma Brown

Eliminate distractions. While I’ve considered tattooing much of what Stephen King has to say about being a great writer on my arms, the one rule of his I can’t abide by is to eliminate distraction. I typically write to music, in a crowded coffee shop, with my cellphone inches away. It seems the more chaotic my environment, the more able I am to get the words down.

— Karma Brown, author of Come Away With Me (Mira Books/Harlequin, July 2015)

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Colleen Oakley

Don’t edit as you go. A common refrain in writing is: first drafts are supposed to be crappy— that’s what the editing process is for. But I can’t move on until every paragraph in every scene is close to, if not exactly, how I want it to be. Maybe it’s because I was a magazine editor for years, but I write, edit, write, edit— and then edit, edit, edit some more. It takes me a painstakingly long time to finish a first draft, but I couldn’t do it any other way.

Colleen Oakley, author of Before I Go (Simon & Schuster/Gallery, January 2015)

 

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  1. “When you get a great idea (for a story, novel, etc.) make sure to write it down immediately, so you don’t forget.” I find that the ideas I DON’T write down tend to be my best ones. If an idea persists somewhere in the back of my brain, and continues to pop up and remind me it’s still there waiting for me, I know it’s likely a story worth telling.

  2. Yep, done everyone of them, especially #5. I ALWAYS edit as I go. I produced two novels that way, so it works for me.
    thanks,
    carol

  3. I’ve probably broken every rule going and I don’t think I’m any the worse for it – although I might be the worse for a lot of other things! Remember the old adage fellow writers. ‘Freedom is the willing acceptance of law.’ If a rule helps you, follow it, if it doesn’t ignore it.

  4. Mary Latela says:

    When my children were very young, and I was taking care of them, writing, tutoring, etc., it came to me that “Anything worth doing is worth being interrupted.” In other words, interruptions happen … how do I keep doing what I’m doing ….breathing helps, you know, slow attentive breathing. If I had to find a way to have no distractions, I would not be a writer yet!

  5. Great post; when I first signed up to twitter, I was intimidated by the number of people sharing their daily word count – until I reminded myself that writers are as varied as the books we write. We are all on a different journey; we all do things our own way. With that knowledge comes freedom and originality.

    • Great point, Aimee! Word counts used to freak me out too! I’m just not the kind of wrier than can churn you 2,000 words (or more) a day! And you’re right — that’s OK. 🙂

  6. This was liberating – especially the comment from Colleen Oakley. I always edit as I go and find myself blocked if I don’t feel something is working.

  7. I so totally agree with you! I was so worried about abiding by the rules, my first draft was stiff and boring. Then I realized those rules were meant as guidelines. They don’t mean you can’t have ANY adverbs (but don’t go crazy.)I break rules all the time now, and so do the authors of best sellers on my bookshelf. I quit worrying so much.

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