Rebirth as Authors – Retirees Reinventing Themselves

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Diana Y. Paul

As a debut novelist after retirement at the age of 55, I’ve been intrigued by the increasing number of retirees reinventing themselves as authors. Perhaps some of us have been scribblers all our lives but had to wait until the day job allowed writing to happen.

Others wrote all along, some professionally, and just wanted to devote more time to writing or to experiment with a new genre.

Although some of us come to the role of author later than others, many of us very likely had a passion for writing decades before we dove into this wild territory of novels and memoirs.

I’ve interviewed five authors (three novelists and two memoirists) on their experiences and advice to others who may be considering embarking on this adventure. I’ve also added my own comments. Rebirth as a writer is a wonderful adventure!

Have long have you wanted to write? And did you try being an author before retirement?

DYP (Diana Paul—author of Things Unsaid)
I have always written–for my high school and college newspapers as a student, essays and short stories for my own pleasure, and also as a professor at Stanford University.

Matilda Butler

MB (Matilda Butler–author of Rosie’s Riveters)
I’ve been writing for decades, and it has always been linked to being an entrepreneur…. Not big profits but it began my education about business as well as writing. Later as an academic, I published articles, book chapters, and books. And when I founded my own company [Knowledge Access], I quickly realized that…books continued to be an incredible branding and marketing tool.

Marylee Macdonald

MM (Marylee Macdonald–author of Montpelier Tomorrow)
I’ve been writing my whole life, but it wasn’t until my youngest left for college that I had the freedom to quit my day job. With an M.A. in Creative Writing, I had always intended to write fiction.

JO (Jenni Ogden–author of A Drop in the Ocean]
[When I was a neuropsychologist] my editor took a punt on a new author who wanted to write a novel disguised as a textbook. That became the textbook, “Fractured Minds”.

PV (Paul Vidich, author of An Honorable Man ]
I launched into what became a very successful career in the music industry,… As my family had grown to need my income, so writing became this little, honest hobby.

After retirement, why did you decide to become an author instead of exploring something else?

DYP: I retired at 55 and then I began Things Unsaid in earnest, having dreamt of this fierce family saga and its dramatic plots for years. I had conversations with friends about aging parents and college-bound children. More practical demands of family and an income-producing career put my aspirations as a novelist on hold until retirement.

BD (Barbara Donsky, author of Veronica’s Grave)

Walking Madison Avenue one day, I passed a kiosk where a Gotham Writers’ brochure caught my eye. There were courses on screenwriting, poetry, and comedy, but the course with the most convenient hours and location was Memoir Writing. I registered within hours. Three or four years later, Veronica’s Grave was published. ….Call it serendipity.

MM: I’m not a dabbler. I didn’t think of retirement as a time to “explore,” but as a time to throw myself into what had always been my passion.

Jenni Ogden

JO: I love every aspect of being a writer: I learn new things every day….I love developing characters and their worlds.

MB: I’ll never consider myself “retired’….When I sold my company, I considered various second acts. Soon I realized that writing would be the focus. … My roots are as a social scientist. I began a series of interviews with women I eventually called Rosie’s Daughters… By the conclusion of that book, I had morphed from social scientist to memoir author.

PV: As a young man I was too full of ambition, too impatient, too dishonest. My mother’s death stilled me. …When I did start to write more seriously I was able to look back at a life–my life. I had lived a lot, and that helped give me perspective.

If you hadn’t become a writer after retirement, what would you have decided to do?

DYP: For me, it would be devoting all of my time to being a mixed media artist focused on Japanese aesthetics.

Barbara Donsky

BD: Coffee is my beverage of choice so perhaps I might have become a barista on a cruise ship.

MM: I can’t even imagine doing anything else. My husband is a brilliant and dedicated scientist, so he wouldn’t have been available for barge trips through Europe.

JO: I may have spent more time on my music and re-learning to sing and becoming better at my guitar playing!

PV: I didn’t retire. I quit my job to take up writing, so there was never a question of what else I might do.

MB: Even now, 20 years after selling my software company, I cannot imagine doing anything other than writing….”Business and writing are a winning pair.”

How did waiting until retirement affect your writing?

DYP: I listened to my friends talk about family secrets and betrayals over meals or coffee. Those stories percolated for so long inside me that they had to be revealed in a narrative. I couldn’t have written Things Unsaid ten years ago without those friends’ sharing. Plus I’ve been able to read more and know what I truly expect in a novel.

BD: The only thing that changed was the form, when I latched onto memoir writing. Memoir allowed me to write in a free-flowing style in the voice of a young girl. It was most enjoyable.

PV: I could never have written my first novel when I was a young man. An Honorable Man was inspired by an abiding family tragedy, but as young writer I didn’t have the life experience to appreciate the moral complexity of the story.

MM: My writing reflects a depth of experience that might not have existed when I was in my twenties. I’m writing with an awareness that time is of the essence.

JO: It gave me the time and space. It also gave me sixty years of experience,

What advice would you give to other retirees who would like to venture into writing a book?

DYP: Find a writers group and engage a fantastic developmental editor. They improved my novel immensely with critical, much-needed feedback. At the same time, silence your own “inner critic” and be open to other readers’ comments.

BD: Writing is not for the faint-hearted. It helps if you can find a course of study, or a group of like-minded writers. Once I signed up at Gotham Writers and met other would-be memoirists, I was hooked. It was a mutually supportive group: I liked their stories, and they liked mine.

JO: Commit to a long journey and understand that the wise saying that it takes 10,000 hours to become truly masterful at something applies also to fiction writing!

MM: Learn the basics of fiction writing by taking classes (online)…or sign up for a class at your community college.

MB: Join a writing group. Writing is solitary but the entire process shouldn’t be. Feedback is vital. Move outside your comfort zone. … Be persistent. You can do it!

6. What are the challenges of embarking on serious writing after having worked at a different career(s) for many years? How did you approach those challenges?

DYP: Since Buddhism was my academic field, Buddhist meditation became part of my writing process. Meditation requires discipline and so does writing. I do both every day.

MB: I’ve always blended writing with a business career…Time and effort have to be devoted to the challenge.

JO: Thinking of it as a real career and not just some hobby that can be picked up casually can be challenging, especially as family and friends may see it as just a nice little retirement distraction.

PV: You may have a story, but the writer needs to master the techniques of telling that story. It is also important not to be discouraged by your age.

What sorts of previous professional experiences/skills did you find useful in the process of writing and publishing a book?

DYP: Since I had been a professor who had written three nonfiction books on Buddhism, I knew how to discipline myself to organize notes, outline and structure.

MB: I was an academic, a researcher at an educational R & D company, and a small business founder. Every experience along the way shaped my ability to set goals, manage time, find resources and persevere. The outcome of writing and publishing a book will always depend on your efforts and willingness to learn and grow.

Now for all those desiring to be reborn as authors, discover the alchemy of the writing process and nurture your book!

Diana Y. Paul,  born in Akron, Ohio,   is a graduate of Northwestern University, with a degree in both psychology and philosophy, and of the University of Wisconsin–Madison, with a PhD in Buddhist Studies. Her debut novel, Things Unsaid (She Writes Press, 2015), has been ranked #2 in  the “Top 14 Books about Families Crazier Than Yours” and was nominated for a Pushcart Prize.

A former Stanford University professor, she is also the author of three books on Buddhism, one of which has been translated into Japanese and German (Women in Buddhism, University of California Press).  Her short stories have appeared in a number of literary journals and she is currently working on a second novel, A Perfect Match.  She lives in Carmel, CA with her husband, Doug, and their white-and-grey calico,  Mao.  Diana and Doug enjoy visiting their two adult children,  Maya Miller ( San Francisco) and Keith Paul (Los Angeles), as often as they can.

To learn more about her and her work, visit her author website at and her blog on movies, art, and food at or follow her on Twitter: @DianaPaul10.



Winner of New Adult Fiction– Beverly Hills Book Awards for 2016

Winner of the 2016 SILVER Medal for Best Fiction in Drama from Readers Favorites

Finalist USA Best Books Awards 2016 in Literary Fiction and in New Fiction

A story of the complexity of the bonds between parents and children and how difficult it can be to escape them, Things Unsaid is a highly charged family saga of characters fighting for space to breathe.

Jules, her sister Joanne, and her brother Andrew all grew up in the same household–but their varying views of and reactions to their experiences growing up have made them all very different people.

Now, as adults with children of their own, they are all faced with the question of what to do to help their parents, who insist on maintaining the upscale lifestyle they’re accustomed to despite their mounting debts. A deft exploration of the ever-shifting covenants between parents and children,

Things Unsaid is a ferocious tale of family love, dysfunction, and sense of duty over forty years.

“With a grace that is absorbing and deft, THINGS UNSAID tackles many difficult questions, including filial responsibility, depression, marital strife, and sexual identity. …The author depicts heart-wrenching conundrums as the three siblings are forced repeatedly to evaluate their personal priorities….An engaging tale of family dysfunction and intractable senior citizens.”

Kirkus Reviews


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  1. My writing followed undertaking an MA in Holocaust Studies in my mid 50s. It led to me writing my first book ‘The Other Schindlers’ at the age of 65 and two further books on the Holocaust have followed. I would not have managed to write these if I had not divorced my husband because it is very intensive and I have to focus entirely on the writing. I enjoy the research and the process of writing but could not cope with looking after someone else at the same time.

    • I am so happy to hear that you have found your voice as an author! The intensity of the subject of the Holocaust must require focus and an exhausting amount of research. Congratulations on your new path as a writer!

  2. I, too, published my first novel after I retired, although I’d been writing since age 10. Before that point I wrote nonfiction articles mostly (the days when there still were many publications) and some short stories. So it wasn’t like I’d made a sudden decision–Hey, now I’ll write. Retirement enabled me to spend more concentrated time working. I believe writing is an obsession, an addiction, although it gives back to the writer more than she puts into it.

    • The joy of writing as well as the painful effort–thinking of Hemingway saying writing is just a matter of sitting down, writing, and opening a vein–requires time, mindfulness, and obsession. You are so right about how the process also gives the author so much in return for the journey.

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